Digging deeper my Thomas D Callahan I have in the 1940 Census with his wife and one child. The rest fits. Just confused on who this other Thomas is. John did have a son Walter. In the 1900 Census he is with his brothers in Worcester, in 1910 he is in San Franisco, then in 1920 in Philly and so on. Was Anna Murphy married before??? The birth dates that I have for Thomas do not match what is in the obit. The obit states Thomas was born Oct 1 1882, My Thomas has a birthdate of 18 Aug 1881. Head is spinning.