I sent a response,but it never showed up on the board, so I'll try again.
Absalom HULDERMAN is my ggggrandfather. He was born in 1820, married 3 wives. the second of which was Nancy Reece, born in 1818 in Virginia. In the list you sent, for which I thank you, the Nancy E. Hulderman, born in 1857. in the 1860 census is the youngest of the two daughter that Nancy Reece had with Absalom. The other daughter, Mary M. Hulderman born in 1855, is my gggrandmother. The remaining children ae those of Absalom and his first wife, Drusilla (KING) Hulderman.
In the 1870 census, that family consists of the children Absalom had with his 3rd wife, Helen A.((NAY) Hulderman with the exception of the last two, Mary M. amd Nancy E. from his previouds marriage.
Sorry this has taken so long for my response (I've been away for month) but, if you have any question, please feeL free to ask.