Have attempted to reach you by your posted email address with no luck. Hoped you might see this reply. Harriet Palmer is my gg grandmother. Alexander Fryer ran off in 1873 and changed his name to George Colwell. He married another woman in La Cross WI without a divorce from Harriet. I believe Harriet did not marry Lucius Hazen Walbridge without that divorce. Harriiet moved with her son and Walbridge and his two sons to Alton, Madison County, IL. Walbridge worked in a box factory there. Harriet died in July of 1880 and is buried in Alton City Cemetery. Would like to hear from you.