I found this info on familysearch would this be him possibly?
groom's name: Benjamin Kilborne
bride's name: Syblana P. M. Phelps
marriage date: 28 Oct 1846
marriage place: Knox,Illinois
indexing project (batch) number: M53781-2
system origin: Illinois-ODM
source film number: 1411909
then I found:
in the 1850 census of Grant county, Grant, Wisconsin, United States list Benjamin as 47 born in Kentucky abt 1803, with wife S.T. M. age 33 and son John age 3 and Edward age 0.