Hi, Penny! I'm sorry that this is probably going to be a disappointing reply. But the book has some severe limitations: it indexes only men, and fairly prominent ones, and was published in 1911. I don't know how far back in time it attempts to go.
Anyway, I found nothing for the names Calkins, Wied or Hutchison. There was a mention of a John Dey (Greenville, b. 1825 in Montgomery Co, NY). There was nothing about a Malvina, though.
There were two Nelsons: Birdell (from Dale, b. in Medina 6-27-1867) and Nels (Cicero Township, b. 1-23-1863 in Denmark), but neither entry included a Marian.
If you can think of additional names from your male lines, let me know!
(The book really needs a better index!)