Sorry you had to deal with someone who sounded so harsh when you were trying to be helpful. I just ran across this thread and thought I'd give it a try. I have relatives from the Milwaukee area who came from Germany; they are the Sheibe's and the Moser's. My great, great grandfather, John Moser married Ernestine Moser and then they moved to Appleton. However, she died and then he remarried a Mary SJ Bardaerry. After 1880 in Appleton, they just disappeared. I have no idea what to do next because I'm not even sure where he came from other than living in Milwaukee. I've tried death records, cemetary records, census records, address books, etc., to no avail. ANY help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.