Yes i do know where you're coming from and understand her privacy (if alive).
Is there link that you could send me to search the papers from 1980 to recent as i googled nothing showing up of those years to search.
NZ BDM 1990, at the LDS on fiches.
Would i use the library near where she was/is living, would you also have a link for that. I don't know what to look for as i live in NZ and don't know where's what over there.
Thanks for the input / info, i'm taking with what you're saying in consideration but i still need to know if she is alive or has died, where she is. It is possible (thinking out side the square) even though at the age 48/50 could of still got married.