Thank You Debra, for your reply,
it is very confusing,with Mary Ann Maddox and Dempsey, i will have to do more research,
i have info of one of her Sons, Arthur Edward Maddox born 1863 an it states she was 32 years, but there could be a mix up with her age, I will be sending for certificates which may help,

William Maddox from England married to Sarah Burns 1883 was Mary Ann James/Treloar ist husband my Great Great Grandfather.

I am not sure about John Treloar and Grace Roberts, my John Treloar married Mary Ann James 1853, but i think he died 1854.do you know what year John and Grace married, maybe he was one of the children of Mary Ann Treloar born 1854 to John Treloar and Mary Ann James,Mary Ann Treloar married a Joshua/Joseph Jessup approx 1876, i will look up my paper work and get back to you.
Thanks again for your help much appreciated.
Regards Patricia