what's the exact date of the marriage?
The father of the Jan born 1820 that I found, still lived in 1853, but I found in the index a Jan Verbeek who died 19 or 29 June 1859
I would have to look for the record itself to see if that's the one who was married to Klaasje de Vries,
but if your John married after that date, then it could be the one,
if the Jan born 1820 would be your John, then his father should have died near for his marriage.