just read your message..i dont know if we are related..as my parents died when i was young. my father married noreen irene machauley hayes,,,john arthur douglas hessing, siblings olga and dorothy(who died early). i would be so happy to hear from you if we are.. mum and dad seemed to keep all their India days a hidden secret from us. They where difinitely unhappy in the UK, and never made frienda with any one, talking about us was something we never talked abou.