Is this the family you are talking about"
1880 - Cedar, Dade, MO
Abraham, 59, KY, farmer, probably could R&W
Nancy M, 42, KY, probably could R&W
Martha A, 22, MO
William R, 19, MO
John T, 17, MO
James H, 14, MO
Thomas A, 10, MO
Charles L, 9, MO

If so, we share sommon 5th great grandparents (Robert Eaton and Mary (Blanchette) Acock.
Joseph F, 7, MO
Albert C, 2, MO