My ex would be your brother. If you have any more info I would appreciate your sharing the family history. I would be happy to share the little info that I remember about the immediate family I was married into. My children know very little of thier Arena family history. My oldest is also named Joseph after his grandfather. There is also Daniel and Jacilyn. I would like my children to know about thier heritage and family background. In November there will be a brand new little Arena out here in California.