The Rev Paul Arvin that I'm related to is my second cousin. He should be well up in years by now. I haven't seen him since I was a child. He is much older than me. He was closer to my dad's age, maybe even older than him. My dad was 67 when he passed. Years ago, he had a cousin who was murdered and the funeral was in either Ravenna or Irvine. She was quite young, maybe in her twenties. I'm sorry, but that is all I know.