Hi Judy...
Ronulus Napoleon Ballew was my husbands step- ggrandfather on his grandmother's side. Let's see if I can explain it a little better....My husband, Mark Lancaster, his father is Jack Lancaster, his grandmother was Mammie Aiken/Lancaster, his grandmother's step-father was Romulus N. Ballew. He married Sally ?/Aiken. I do not have Sally's maiden name for sure as I have not done any research lately. I believe that Romulus was married several times as the post from Brian Ballew indicated. I have written to Brian asking for any information he might care to share.
Don't know if this helps any in your research. Please feel free to contact me. My email is k95388@aol.com