I have been looking from the Phoebe Defenbaugh Beissel view.
I have located 2 graves in Central City, KS, mostly unreadable but have come up with some changes.

James Delbert Beissel b 31 May 1881 died aged 1 year 1 month 11 days on July 11 of 1882 from the inscription on the gravestone and the addition of a middle name and birthdate.

Elden Clifford b 28 Mar 1879, died aged 6 yrs 6 mos 13 days on Oct 11, 1885. Per gravestone inscription, his name is very clearly Elden C.

I'm not aware of a femal child named Emily bo 9 Feb 1858 and appears to be a 12th child when Phoebe's obit states there were only 11, 7 of whom survived her.