This will seem like an odd request, but does anyone know of any family secrets or bad things we have done? My great-great-grandmother refused to talk about the Bobbitts, which in retrospect doesn't make much sense, since she was married to a descendent of one. Anyway, is anyone aware of the "big" secret or of something that would keep someone quiet like that? This refers to the Bobbitts in Virginia, the Grayson County, Carroll County, and nearby counties.