My brother Jimmy had called and told me about this message. I think you were talking to someone named Dawn and thought it was me. My name is Barbara Calamia-Lozano. But everyone for my whole life has called me Dee Dee. (thanks to my sister)
I too kept my maiden name because I loved my dad. (Thomas James Calamia) My brother is Jimmy and my sister is Christine. Tommy told me your Mom passed (my condolences to you and your family) it is such a shame because she was my first cousin but we did not really know each other well. All my first cousins are 20 to 30 years older than me. Growing up I was always closer to my 2nd cousins because they were closer to my age.
Oh , by the way I am 41 and will be 42 on April 9th.
Your grandfather "James" was my uncle. I remember him very well.
Jimmy let me listen to the message to left on his answering machine and he should be calling you back soon.
It would be nice to get together, when the weather gets a little nicer.