PJ, good to hear from you again, it's been many years. That is similar to what I had heard from 2 sources, my grandfather passed on his version and from a family named Calder up in canada. But this actually fills in a lot of gaps and makes some sense too. I knew about the castle, the only structure left is the House of Calderwood. I had heard a "Calderwood or descendant" could only live in it, but that could be hearsay. BTW, I think I still owe you for a packet you sent to me of a book on the Calderwoods. if you want to email me your address you can to gertz 1984 at mindspring dot com - i am sorry i haven't paid you yet, just let me know how much etc. I love the info you have shared. thank you for this, i will also forward on to my sister.