Thank you so much! I believe that Patrick and Lydia are buried in Graceland Memorial Park, New Albany, IN 47150. I will try to keep you in the loop, I have uncles etc. to contact still, and im sure more info will come about.
I do remember one story of Patrick taking care of Grandma, washing her feet. He is said to have been a devout Christian and as of his death was a standing member of the Methodist church.
I also was told he was in training as an alter boy at one point in cannelton, something freaked him out and he left the church that day, ended up at a tent revival, and never went back to the Catholic church, lol.
I have some stuff to upload this weekend. If ya see anything different, or that doesn't match your end let me know.
Thank You Again so much!