Robert is my great grandfather. He is buried in Bangor and I have information about him that I'd be happy to share with you. Drop a line to me as "toad in the road" (no spaces) at gmail.
I knew (briefly) Margaret Phair just before she passed at (George) Robert's house in Brewer.
I'm VERY curious about who you and 'adeptbeth' are. I don't recognize either name, not that of the person who replied about Margaret Phair.
Hope to hear back soon!