My father who is now 87yo, is the son of Clarendon Cole and Stella Prosser. His grandfather was Sanford Stoddard Cole of Cuba, Ny. From what I know is Sandford Cole was a farmer and cheese buyer. The farm was passed down (dairy farm) to Clarendon, and then to my father. However my father sold the cows and the farm equipment sometime in the 40's. After my grandmother passed away in '83 the farm house was sold. My father speaks of a Aunt Hattie. I have a birth date of Sanford Cole: 1846 and death 1919. I do believe Sophia Stoddard married a John Browning Cole and I think Sophia return to Conn. to give birth to her first child (Sanford) because she was 37 at the time and frontier life was very difficult. However mother and baby did return to Cuba, Ny. I also think Sophia died of tubercolosis in 1856. This is information that i have had past down to me years ago. Hope this helps.