Thanks so much for your message. Connie and her first husband had divorced and he had custody of their children.
What I can't locate is the marriage of hers to Mr. Lenoard, Mr. Sellers or Chris Cole. She married Chris in 1965 in Oregon (I think) about a month after I married her youngest son, Teddy Sellers, and we were married 03/12/1965.
May I ask how you are connected to Chris?