I'm looking for information regarding Thomas Conley,son of Henry Connelly & Rebecca Blair. He was born approx 1836 and married Lydia Connelly in 1858. I have not found anything concrete regarding the date & place of death. Many people have posted that he died at the beginning of the Civil War. This is not possible. The war years were 1861-1865. His son Hamilton was born in 1861 and his son William was born in 1867. He is not listed on the 1870 Census with his wife and sons. Presumably, he died btw 1867-1870. I appreciate any help. Thanks!