Hi James,thanks for all the info.It really is exciting putting together all the pieces.My great Uncle Jo who married Isabel Godwin,nicknamed cissie,they had a daughter Doreen Lilian Messeder who married Roy ?They moved to Basingstoke with their daughter Sherie.I believe Doreen died a couple of years ago.I will have to look up the Messeders on Genes Reunited.The Fluckigers came from Erlach,Bern ,Switzerland part of the Rohrbach family which originated in Bavaria,Germany.Lilian Messeder met Walter Joseph Fluckiger at claridges where they both worked.They had 3 children,Walter Joseph Fluckiger,Joyce Lilian Fluckiger,my mother ,and Patricia Fluckiger.My Fluckiger cousins live in Canada and Lucerne. Emily Harriet Deason was the witness at lilian messeder's and Walter Fluckiger's wedding,but she is also referred to as Dawson.Thanks for your help.bye for now,Anita.