Found a typed copy of a family bible from NJ. - Middlesex County that listed:

Charles Dahmer m Anna E Ward (b1868) Feb 29, 1892
Witness: Lillie M. Spader (my ancestor), Frank A. Newman (Lillie eventually married him).

Anna Ward's parents: John Henry Ward 1840-1925 and Ann Eliza McDermott d1911 both probably born Ireland (probably sister of my gggm).

Is anybody working on these families?