Your family is not connected to the Daigneault and this thread is therefore now "off topic."
If you'll contact me directly at strahan shari genealogy @ hotmail . com (removing all the spaces) and give me some clarification, I'll see what I can find for you.
You wrote that your ancestor Joseph was born in Mass. in 1865, but I think you meant 1885. I found the birth record in Sutton of a Joseph on 6 Sept 1885 to Narcisse and Adelle (Breau) Wood in the Mass. State Vital Records, but nothing in West Boylston or Lowell for either 1865 or 1885. In either case, the birth would be before the marriage to Henriette Breau(lt) in 1890.
What lead you to this date and belief it was your grandfather born in all 3 records to the same parents?