Jim,
My great grandfather was George W. DeLing born March 4, 1861, I believe in Rome, New York.
Over the generations the name has been spelled, DeLing, Dehling and Dealing. I believe my George W. Deling was a direct descendant of a Samuel Dealing who participated in the Revolution. Samuel was from Glastonbury, CT.
Do you see any relationship to chares Dealing in any of this?
Thank you,
Richard P. Clark
The familt