Hello David, I have not forgotten - just been flat out since back from France. I was intending to look out some family stuff before meeting up but I just have not had the time to do it - and can't see it being in the immediate future. However, we are meant to be going back to France for a week next Wednesday but major strikes in France might mean we can't go - in which case I could have a look through my boxes (at least the stuff is together). Re Highgate, apart from "two rows to the right of Karl Marx and about halfway down", I can't be more specific. When I visit, I just tend to wander about until I find it. Not much help to you I know but that's all I can tell you. Haven't come across the official guide bit before except for the original, Western section - although there is someone on the gate and I have just said "I'm visiting my family grave". Do you want to email me at akasha@simplydivineceremonies.com and then I can give you my telephone number so that we can chat. Best regards, Akasha