John and Stacie,
I stumbled upon this thread when looking for something else. I'm pretty sure that Brigid Delap Nee was a cousin and friend of my grandmother, Mary Molloy Nee. Though they both married Nees, they were related through the Molloy side.
I have a photo of my grandmother with a woman who, I'm pretty sure, is Brigid. If you send me your email addresses, I'll send you a copy. Mine is
oconnord@bucknell.edu.
Best,
Deirdre O'Connor