My father was Canio Joseph Di Cairano, died 2003. His parents were Donato Di Cairano and Anna Zarilli. They were born in Calitri; married in US and lived and raised 4 children in Staten Island. Must be related to the next door neighbor of John V.
Margot Di Cairano Durkin, born 1948, Washington, DC, parents:
Canio Joseph Di Cairano and Virginia Margaret Nilan. I have one brother.