Lisa:
The names of your grandparents, aunt and uncle just don't ring a bell. I've really never known other Druckmans. My father's father died when my father was 16, and though he did know of some uncles, aunts and cousins on his father's side, nobody kept in touch after that.
My parents did discover some cousins on my father's side a few years ago in the Boston area, and may still be in touch with them, but I think they are descendants of an Uncle Charlie - I don't remember many details. Where does your father live? I believe that you are in Westchester County?
I would think that if the Faye your father talked about was my aunt, that they would have somehow been cousins. But if so, then I think my father would at least know the name. I'll have to ask my parents.
-Jerry