We may know one another or you may know my parents. My father is Ray 'Sonny' Gryder, s/o Lester E. Gryder and Ethel Mae Duffer from Keysville, VA. Ethel's father was Charlie Flounoy Duffer (m. Meta Lee Moss), Charlie is said to have been raised by John Dan Duffer. His mother may have been Alice Atwel (this was John Duffer's wife). This I'm unsure of and know one seems to know for certain. It has kinda been passed down that Charlie was illegitimate. He is said to have had one brother that lived near Richmond, in the Highland Springs area. Charlie has been dead since 1973. His wife Meta was d/o Samuel Lewis Moss Susan Elizabeth Ross of Granville Co., NC. Any help on the Duffers and especially who John Dan Duffer's parents may have been would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
Here is my home mailing address:
Ray Gryder, II
3008 Homestead Dr., Petersburg, VA 23805