James T. Ellet, son of Washington Ellett and Lucy Parker, b. K&Q, m. Dicey Stokes, d, Southall Stokes and Shalnessa Rouse
in Essex 16 Dec, 1871. He was 23, she was 21.

James T. Ellett, son of Beverley Ellett and Martha Clarke
m. Julia Stokes, d. Southall Stokes and Shenessa (pick your spelling of that name, it varies in every record) Rouse. He was 42, born Essex, she was 27, same.

Source: Marriage Records of Essex Vol. I 1850-1872
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