i do have also this info, Pearl is the one who is really confusing me. In In her father's obit she is Cross (she was married to Fred Cross, who is buried in the Jackson Twp aka Berlin Cemetery) but in her brother's obit she is a Miller from Des Moines. The person who also told me she was in Des Moines in a Nursing home is now deceased and has been for sometime. I have been to the cemetary as Thomas and wife Elizabeth, and a child that died in infancy, and a couple of their other kids are buried there, Charles and Minnie, as well as Asa and Elizabeth. Thanks though, Debbie