So I found the Stemblers in the 1880 census.
Sally, Harriet, Alma, Wallace, Ida, Harry, Edgar, Carrie, Stembler. Does this mean anything to you? They all come from John Stembler and Sarah Brown. Now before that I see nothing because John was born in 1820. However I do see other Stemblers working in the same business and living just 1 block away so I know that they all worked together in Bootfitting and Bootmaking and married into the Vandusen family as well as others and made a mark for themselves. Please tell me again the name of the husband that you are looking for so that I can do more research on it, I know it is here I just need the name.