I am looking for any one with information in my wife's great great grand parents.He was Frank J. Heffelfinger. She was Mathilda Fate. I believe her parents may have been Felix(1838-1914) and Adelaide (1839-1905) Fate. Next to Adelaide is Mary E. Fate(1810-1885) and her stone says "Grandma".There are also other Fates in the cemetary also.These are all in St Joseph Roman Catholic Cemetary on S. Washington St. in Tiffin Ohio. I can understand the confusion on the Fate name. On the LDS site I have found Fate from Germany and Mc Fate from Ireland. I suppose it is possible that some of the McFates may have dropped the Mc and became Fate.