Hi tietracy!
Thanks for the last reply. Holes are being filled in. Margaret Elizabeth Barton is the Elizabeth M Fay that you found, and you're right about Joseph Willard Fay Sr. Was my Father. He was born Jun 30 1916 (the 1917 is wrong there),
and she was not widowed in 1930, but divorced. James Louis Fay didn't pass away until about 1957 or 58. Elizabeth might not have wanted people to know that she was divorced. There was a stigma attached to divorce back then. Did you get to see the email I sent here where I related details about my sister and cousins?
By the way, I'd love to talk to a long-lost cousin...573-636-3765
Joe Fay Jr.