Ok Sally, I thank you for the fast reply.
I just want specify that my ancestors WERE NOT relatives of your husband's ancestors; anyway the curiosity was that the immigration period (1903-1906), the area (Rochester), the addresses (Scio street or Heide Platz) were very closed. Moreover, you know, Gaeta (or Elena) is a little town, and all inhabitants meet (and met 100 years ago) each other. I could be sure that the old immigrates, coming from the same country, not reading and writing able, had been living and working together. Merry Christmas to you and your family.