Actually, while surprised, it takes more than that to shock me.<grin>
Ocie is my great-aunt, so I think that Judy is some sort of cousin. The way I read the chart now, your father and my father would be first cousins.
That side of the family is sort of interesting. I have almost no information on my father's father, and my grandmother (Homer's sister) won't discuss him at all.
I think I'll e-mail my dad and let him know about this cousin he didn't know about. I'd leave my own e-mail address in this message for you to write me if I wasn't afraid of all the spam address harvesters out there. Let me know if you need any information that I might have access to.
-- Tom Kirby Jr. (actually, Tom Kirby III, but that's another story)