I hope you get this and contact me, I found a J. Forinder b: abt 1780-1790 on the 1850 Weakley Co TN census, with a wife named Julia b: abt 1800, they had 2 children in the household named John and Julia.
Some unknown person sent me the tip, to look for them on this census, and sure enough, they were there! This person mentioned the names J. H. Alexis Forand and Julie Girard!!!
This man born 1780-90 may be the father of the one you posted about, and he may also be the father of my 4 X great grandfather, Alexander b: about 1811 or 1810-1820 depending on the census you read. PLEASE PLEASE CONTACT ME.....I wish so much to share info and compare notes with you!!

Cheryl
tohocheho@bellsouth.net