I have Chesley F Ford b 1865 Potosi, Linn, Kansas as married to Charlotte Emmaline Steele b-1865, Iowa. They married 4 Oct 1891 in New Mexico. An 1870 Census lists them with children, Isaac, Robert, Isabel, Charlie and a non family child Fannie Rus. This census also includes names of Chesley's parents as Benj F Ford b 1832 MO and Elisabeht J b 1838 Kentucky. Could this be your family?
I have marriage record and other census with those parents. If you are interested.