This is cousin Anthony. I found some information on line concerning your mom and Grandma. There was a a census done in Brooklyn in 1910 and found that your granfather (Philip;Felice) and your grandmother (Rosa Napolitano lived next door to 238 Union Avenue. It mentions that grandma (Carmela) was two years old and they had a baby named Filomena who was 6 months old. Has to be Aunt Fil.
Hope all is well and I miss you all.