Michelle, I am back trying to find my Hahers/Hehirs in Bing-hamton. I just saw this post from 11 years ago. I hope you are still around and might be able to help once again. My line is your "Family C" Thomas Haher who married Mary Shaughnessy at St. Patrick's Dec. 5, 1869. My home e-mail is now firstname.lastname@example.org
. I hope to hear from you.