Had to reply to this when I read it tonight. My ggrandmother was Mary Ellan O'Hare born in Carlingford Co Louth 1862( died 1930) her father owned O'Hares pub and grocery store in the centre of Carlingford. She was the youngest of 7 I think being the only girl. The family had other pubs in the village & still there today. She was married to James Mackin. When I was very young we used to visit cousins of my ggrandmother and they were a brother & sister James & ?? McCardle at Irish Grange just outside carlingford. I also remember talk of a Mary Kate (cousin) my grandmother would talk about. Could these be related.