I'm grasping at straws but you have so many names in your message that I am looking for. My Milly was born Milly Garrett in SC and she married Lish (probably short for Elisha) Hodge or Hodges. They had a son named Sam. They moved to Georgia. That is all I know about Milly and this info was passed on to us by Milly's brother Jonathan Joshua Garrett who eventually moved to MS. Joshua was born around 1792 in SC so his sister Milly was probably born fairly close to that time. I believe Milly's son John Hodge named a son Elisha. Any chance at all we have the same Milly?
Thanks Pat