Raymond Jacobus son of Francis & Henry V. N. Jacobus of Caldwell, Essex County New Jersey born in 1864 is shown in the 1900 Census with 2 children. Florence 11 and Mandyage 7 he is living in Montville twp. Later in 1910 he is married to a Elizabeth M. and has no children. I feel that he must have been married before because he has a nanny for the children and shows no wife in 1900. Please help.