Tina, did Joseph every move to Greenville Co, SC? I have been told that some of the children of Mary and John Blair Bolling moved to that county. In the 1810 census I have found apparently a widow Rebecca Bolling and her age at that time was 26-45 which would fall into the age she would be if born as you say in 1782. She has one son 10-16 listed but no daughters. Could this be her, do you think?