Susan, Lou was Lucille Love Lilly Toler Bowden, daughter of Theora Alabama "Bam" Lilly Lilly Berryhill Long Spencer and John SHERMAN Lilly SR. Lou's first husband was Jess Lee Toler who was the father of Fanny Jane Toler Walker and Naola Bam Toler Pollock. Lou's second husband was Tracy Guy Bowden SR. Tracey SR was my father's brother and son of Luther Dunn Bowden and Nora Belle McComas.
Bam was my mother's half sister and daughter of Thomas HUBBARD Lilly and Cynthia JANE Lilly Lilly Lilly. My Lilly grandfather was Arthur BEE Lilly, Hubbard's cousin. Are you confused yet? Go to my tree Eden's Harvest for more info as well as photos. Just do a general search for one of our mixed-up dead relatives and click onto my tree. Hope this helps.