My Mother had an older brother named Thomas V. Lee who died in infancy. He had been named for an older Thomas Lilly as my maternal grandmother was Margaret Ann (Green) Lilly. Where is the Thomas Lilly's tombstone that you are unsure of located? My great grandmother Margaret Lilly is buried at a cemetery in Hilltop, WV, which is in, I believe, Fayette County, although it may be in whatever county Beckley is in. She has other Lillys who are also buried there. I do have a large oval picture of gr gr Margaret LILLY which I inherited from my Granny, her daughter. I would be glad to have it scanned and share with anyone who would like a copy. I also have a couple snapshots of her, although she only married into the Lilly family, my Granny's maiden name was Lilly (full name: Ida Belle (Lilly) (Johnson) (Lee) Bellew. She is buried in Oak Hill in the Highlawn Cemetery with her son, Herbert Johnson.