Based on your specifics, this could be a match.
Francis Marrion Lufkin
Born 1829 Phillips, ME
Died 02 Mar 1899 Temple, Maine
Intention of marriage 28 Oct 1857 to Aurill Knight. Their children were:
Lufkin, Ellery Chandler
Lufkin, Cora M.
Lufkin, John Hampton
Lufkin, Mary Alice born 15 Jun 1876 in Farmington, Maine
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